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General Birth Control Questions

Do you have to get blood work done to get on birth control?
Are there "safer" or "more fertile" days when you are on hormonal birth control?
I'm allergic to latex, how can I still have safe sex?
Can you get pregnant even if you are on birth control?
What's the best birth control method for a 14 year old?
Should hormonal birth control be considered an abortion rather than contraception?
Can I get birth control without my parents knowing?
I can't take hormonal birth control. What are options?
How old do you have to be to get birth control?
If you take birth control while pregnant does it hurt the baby or end the pregnancy?
I have irregular periods. Can I get pregnant? Do I even need birth control?
Do you need to get a physical exam before getting birth control?
Do medications like prednisone affect hormonal birth control?
Do antibiotics affect hormonal birth control?
I keep having to switch birth control due to breakthrough bleeding...
Does hormonal birth control make you get your period even though you are pregnant?

Do I need a backup method if I switched my birth control and don't know where I was in my menstrual cycle?
 

Questions about Emergency Contraception

What's the difference between the morning after pill and the abortion pill?
How does EC work?
What are some of the reasons that EC might not work?
Is it true that taking 10 birth control pills at once is the same as taking EC?
Does EC work if taken before sex? Does it work for more than one sex act?
Can regular birth control pills work as EC?
How much does EC cost?
How do I get EC if I live in the United States?
I took EC and now I'm bleeding. Why?
Can EC make your next period late?
I missed a birth control pill. Should I take EC?
What is the risk of birth defects if I've taken Emergency Contraception or anti-depressants?
 

Questions about Condoms

Are "Dollar Store" condoms safe?
How can a condom fail if you use it perfectly?
Are condoms reliable at preventing pregnancy?
If a condom falls off while in the vagina, does it cause problems?
Could "pimple-like pimples" in my vagina be caused by condoms?
I'm allergic to latex. What other alternatives are there for condoms?
 

Questions about the Birth Control Pill

Summary of all: "I messed up taking my pills, could I get pregnant?" questions.
We had unprotected sex, and later she started birth control pills. Could she be pregnant?
How does the "6 hour window" for taking pills work?
Could a missed pill mess up my cycle?
If I take a pregnancy test while on the pill, will I get a false positive due to the hormones?
Can I change the time that I take my pills?
How long after stopping the pill will I ovulate (and be able to get pregnant)?
My birth control pills are 3 different colors. What does that mean?
I am on a low dose pill. Am I at more risk for pregnancy than on a high dose one?
How will switching birth control pills affect me?
I was allergic to one brand of birth control pills. Is there another I can try?
I'm on the pill. Can I get pregnant if I have unprotected sex?
Does my weight affect the effectiveness of birth control pills?
I took the whole packet of birth control pills at once. Could I still be pregnant?
I just started the pill. When is it effective at preventing pregnancy?
I heard antibiotics reduce the effectiveness of the pill. Can I be pregnant?
I recently stopped pills and the condom broke. How long am I still protected?
If the pill fails, when will the woman ovulate?
Should I use the pill to regulate irregular periods? How bad are the side effects?
I vomited 3.5 hours after taking a pill, does that count as missing it?
Is it true that you can take the birth control pill vaginally?
I'm on Seasonale. Can I take a week off each month so I can still have a period?
Do women gain a lot of weight while on Seasonale?

Is it possible to lose your sexual desire while on the pill?
What's the most effective way to use birth control pills? Are condoms necessary?
What can spotting mean?
When should I start my pill cycle if I'm switching from the patch to pills?
Can I stop my pill midcycle and start a new brand that Tuesday?
Should I double up on pills because I'm starting a new pack late? Will this affect my ovulation?
Can you get pregnant if you have been on the pill for 3 weeks? Can you get pregnant on the sugar pills?
I had sex between my last pack of pills and reordering new pills. Could I be pregnant and when should I start the new pack?
I am using birth control pills and antibiotics and used EC after unprotected sex. How safe am I?
Does the pill affect future fertility? 
I’ve been on pills for 3 years. Should I take breaks after every few years?

Questions about the Patch

Is it normal to have increased desire on the patch? Can you wear 2 at once?
Where are all the places you can put the patch?
My period stopped right after putting on my 1st patch. Should I take it off?
Will I get pregnant from unprotected sex right after my period week on the patch?
Will I get pregnant if I had my patch off for 9 hours? Will the patch affect a pregnancy test?
Can I use the patch if I get migraines?
I'm on the patch, but I feel like I ovulated. Is this possible?
Can I get pregnant if I didn't change my patch the second week?
I had sex with a woman who doesn't always use her patches right. Could she get pregnant?
How long will it take me to get pregnant after being on the patch?
I was 2 days late taking off my patch before the period week. Could I get pregnant?

Question about Depo Provera

Is Depo affected by antibiotics like the pill is?
Are you more likely to gain weight on Depo than other birth control?
I've missed periods since starting Depo. Is that normal?
Exactly how effective is Depo?
The day after my 1st Depo shot the condom broke. Could I be pregnant?
Can I start Depo the day after my period is done?
I heard it takes a year to get pregnant after stopping Depo. Is that true?
I got off Depo a long time ago, but I haven't gotten a period yet. Can I still get pregnant?
I haven't had a period for a long time after stopping Depo. Is that normal?

I recently went off Depo Provera. What do I need to do to get my body back to normal?
My girlfriend is on the shot and she just had a period. Are we still protected from pregnancy?
I got the birth control shot when I wasn't on my period. Will it still work?
Is it normal to miss a period while on Depo Provera?
 

Questions about Withdrawal

Should I worry about pregnancy if he didn't ejaculate in me?
Is "pulling out" as effective as using condoms? (in case you don't scroll down, NO!!)
But wouldn't withdrawal make it
less likely to become pregnant?

Question about the Sponge

Where is the cervix located in the vagina? How can I be sure the sponge is in the right place?

Questions about Using Birth Control to Skip Your Period

I don't want to have my period next week. Can I delay or skip it?
I don't want to have my period in a month. Can I use pills to skip it?
I don't want to have my period in 2 days. Can I use a friend's patch to delay it?

Can I use Ortho TriCyclen Lo (or any triphasic pill) to skip my period?
I tried putting in the Nuva Ring again to skip my period, and got some spotting. Is this normal?
 

Questions about the IUD
Could you get pregnant one week before your IUD is removed?
 

General Birth Control Questions

"When you go in to get birth control at your clinic do you have to get blood work done?"

No you don't. The exam to get on birth control consists of a pelvic exam, a pap smear, and a general physical exam including listening to your heart and lungs. Blood tests aren't necessary, and it's not general practice anywhere for a birth control exam. The only things that we test for here with blood are syphilis, hepatitis, and we can run cholesterol and blood glucose tests, and again, none of those are routine at an annual (pap smear) exam. If you would like any of those tests run, you have to ask.
          -Emma

 

"While being on the birth control pill, are there safer days to have sex?"

"I hear that women with regular 28 day cycles usually ovulate around day 14 of the cycle. Does this mean that a woman on the birth control pill would ovulate during that time?"

I assume that you are asking about being safer from pregnancy. As long as you take birth control pills (or any hormonal birth control) correctly, then you shouldn't ovulate at all. When women do ovulate on the pill it's usually because they missed a pill, or took it several hours late, and then that drop of hormones brought on ovulation. But that ovulation happens around the time she missed her pill, not necessarily mid-cycle.

It is true that women with perfectly regular, 28-day cycles usually ovulate about 14 days after their period starts. However, no one should use just that fact as a birth control method, as any number of things can make ovulation change that one month.

Remember that there is no day that is safe from STIs. Always use condoms EVERY time you have sex to prevent getting STIs. Using condoms every time you have sex also helps protect you against pregnancy. Pills are rated 99.9% effective at preventing pregnancy. While that is very good, it's not 100%, and even when women take the pill perfectly, they occasionally do get pregnant.
          -Emma

 

"I'm allergic to latex. How can I have safe sex? I hear lambskin condoms are very bad."
          -Josie, Coralville

You are right about the lambskin condoms. They are very porous (they have small holes in them) so they are very ineffective at preventing pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). There are other non-latex options though.

Now there are condoms available made of polyurethane. This is a kind of plastic. They rated to be very close in effectiveness to male condoms. Some people prefer these to latex condoms, even if they don't have the allergy, since these are often thinner than the latex. Polyurethane is a much more expensive product than latex, so these tend to be quite expensive.

The Reality Female Condom is also made of polyurethane, so it's safe for people with latex allergies. These aren't quite as effective as male condoms at preventing pregnancy, but they are still very effective. Women tend to like this,  because they are in control of the protection, and female condoms can be put in several hours before intercourse, so they don't have to interrupt lovemaking. Like the polyurethane condoms, they can be a bit expensive.

You may want to experiment with other latex condoms too. Sometimes people will use a certain brand of condoms, they won't be comfortable, and the person will assume they are allergic to latex. This is very common with spermicidically lubricated condoms, or flavored condoms.
          -Emma

 

"Can you still get pregnant even if you are on birth control?"
          -Julissa, Bronx, NY

Yes.

The most common reason women become pregnant while on birth control is when they take it incorrectly or inconsistently. For instance, if women take their birth control pills at a different time every day, if they occasionally forget to take it, if they forget to change their patch or it comes off, if they are late for getting their Depo shot, if they put in their diaphragm or cervical cap incorrectly, if they put on the condom wrong, and lots of other ways.

But, even if women use their birth control perfectly they will occasionally become pregnant anyway. The birth control pill, for instance, is rated more than 99% effective when used perfectly. That's an incredibly good rating, but it still means that some women will become pregnant, even if they do everything right. In groups of women who do not use it perfectly, which is very common, the incidence of pregnancy is much higher. Except for abstinence, there is no birth control method that is 100% effective.
          -Emma

 

"What birth control method (pill, patch, shot) would be good for a 14 year old girl? And how do you ask your mom to take you, and for her not to think that you are sexually active? I have been thinking about it for about 5 months, and I would rather be safe than sorry. Plus, it helps to regulate your periods, which is one of the things that I need."
          -Heather, Falling Waters, WV

As far as your first question, regarding which birth control method is right for you, that's something that you have to decide for yourself or with the help of your doctor. There's not one that works best for 14 year olds, and another that works best for 30 year olds. It's all based on the individual and what's best for them. Do you think you will be able to take a pill at the same time everyday? If you don't think that will work for you, then the patch or Depo would probably be better options for you. When you do go and see the gynecologist, you should talk over your concerns about birth control with them, and they will take your concerns and your medical history into account to help you find a birth control method that is right for you. No matter whether your gynecologist decides that the pill, the patch, the ring, or Depo would be best for you, remember that you still need to use condoms each and every time that you have sex. Hormonal birth control provides absolutely no protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

As for how to tell you mother, I don't know that I have anything you will want to hear. If you truly just want to be on birth control to regulate your periods, than I think that you should tell her that. If you have had a doctor recommend birth control for that purpose, then you can bring that recommendation to her. Even if you bring her a note from a doctor saying that the only reason that you want birth control is to regulate your periods, there's no guarantee that your mother won't assume that you want to be protected against pregnancy as well.

Here's my advice, and keep in mind, that I don't know anything about you and your mother's relationship, and this may not be applicable to your relationship. My advice is to be open and honest. If you want to be on birth control because you are or are going to be sexually active (even if you want it to regulate your periods also), then tell her that. Sure, she may be shocked by this information, and she may be angry when she first hears it. But she may also be very proud of you for being mature and grown-up enough to tell her and to get protection, rather than going without birth control.

The other option, is to call your gynecologist or your local reproductive health clinics, to see if you can get birth control without your parent. In many states, you don't need parental permission to get birth control. I do recommend that you use that as a last resort, and try to include your parent if possible. Even if you get birth control without her, she could find that pack of pills down the road, and not only be mad that you're on birth control, but that you didn't tell her.

Since you said you have been mulling this over for 5 months, I would recommend that you just get this over with. Especially if you are sexually active, it would be very unfortunate if you became pregnant because you were putting off this conversation with your mother. As intimidating as the birth control conversation would be, think of how scary it could be to tell her that you are pregnant. Just try to relax about it, and be as honest as you can be. Remember that some mothers are very proud of their daughters for taking responsibility. This conversation may not end up being nearly as bad as you have been building it up to be. Good luck.
          -Emma

 

"Do you believe certain birth controls can block a fertilized egg from implanting [in the uterus], and therefore should be called an abortive rather than a contraceptive?"
          -Diana,
Monson, MA

This is a question that is causing some controversy (and confusion) nationwide, mostly because it depends on each individual's definition of conception, abortion, contraception, and when life begins.

The first issue is to try to define some of these notions. In a previous post, I discussed the different definitions of conception and when pregnancy begins. Click here to read the full post, but the gist of it is that most medical definitions say that pregnancy begins when the fertilized egg implants in the uterus. The reason it doesn't begin when the sperm meets the egg, is because many of these fertilized eggs don't implant in the uterus even when women aren't on any hormonal birth control. As many as 50% of fertilized eggs leave the body without implanting. It becomes really overcomplicated to say that each of these eggs was a pregnancy, when the woman involved will most likely not miss her period or have any way of knowing that she was ever "pregnant".

Hormonal birth control (pill, patch, ring, shot), if taken correctly, are meant to prevent a woman from ovulating. Thus, in most circumstances, there should be no eggs to fertilize, and this isn't an issue. One of the other things that the pill does is cause the uterine lining to be thinner, so that in the case that an egg is released and is fertilized, it is less likely to implant in the uterus. Again though, up to 50% of fertilized eggs don't implant, even when women aren't on hormonal birth control. Also, a lot of fertilized eggs implant anyway, since many women do become pregnant even when they were taking hormonal birth control.

But, back to what I said in that first paragraph, everyone has their own definitions of all these terms, and no matter what, anything relating to pregnancy is going to be controversial. To answer your question, we don't consider hormonal birth control abortive, but there are some people who do. The best thing is to just do your own research, and make decisions regarding what birth control you would like to use for yourself.
          -Emma

 

"I am thinking about having sex, but I want to get on birth control before I do. I am afraid to say anything to my parents. Is there anyway I can get birth control pills without my parents finding out?"
          -
Anna, Iowa City, IA

In the state of Iowa, women under 18 do not have to notify their parents before going on birth control or seeing a gynecologist. The biggest problem that young women have when they choose not to inform their parents, is paying for the required exams and the birth control. Many young women do not want to use their insurance, because they don't want their parents finding out.

If you do have insurance, you should call the customer service phone number on your card. First, you should ask if your policy covers gynecology exams and birth control. If they do cover these services, you should ask them about having your medical records kept confidential. Everyone has the right to have their medical records kept confidential, even from the people who hold your insurance policy. Just talk this over with the customer service representative of your insurance company and they'll tell you all about how it works and what these visits will look like on your parents' insurance statements.

If you can't use the insurance, or if you don't have insurance, you have some more research ahead of you. First you should call around to different health care providers to find out where you can find the most affordable exam. Here at the Emma Goldman Clinic we have half-priced gynecology exams for teenage women, which will help significantly with these costs. When you do get your birth control prescription, make sure you call around to lots of different pharmacies to find out which one has the best price for your birth control. Pharmacies can vary widely in price, so it's important to shop around.

Remember, that even when you go on the pill (or any other hormonal birth control method) you still need to use condoms each time that you have sex. Hormonal birth control does not protect you at all against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Also, if you're in the habit of using condoms regularly, then you are protected against pregnancy in cases of if you forget to take a pill, or if you are put on antibiotics or other medications that lessen the effectiveness of birth control.

Good luck. If you have more questions, feel free to call us here at the clinic.
          -Emma

 

"I visited my doctor and was told I cannot take hormonal birth control due to existing medical problems. My question is "Now What?" I feel like there are no other options. I have looked into and read about all the types of birth control that do not involve hormones (i.e. condoms, spermicide, diaphragm, IUD). I would possibly consider the IUD later, but I do not want something like that at this moment. I was thinking about a diaphragm, but I am worried about the insertion and removal. I am still a virgin, and I am a little scared of touching and inserting something in there. Does it become easier with practice? I also read that it has to be left in place after sex for 6-8 hours. How does this protect against pregnancy?"
          -
Sarah, Ontario, Canada

You have a whole lot of questions here. I do want to say that it's really good that you're doing all this research before you have sex.

Most barrier methods (diaphragm, male or female condom, sponge, cervical cap) do involve you touching your vagina. Remember that your vagina is a part of your body just like your fingers, your face, your belly button, your toes, etc. For some women it helps to think that putting their fingers in their vagina, to put in a diaphragm for instance, isn't all that different than reaching in the back of your mouth to floss your teeth. Yes, you're sticking your fingers into a moist orifice (bodily opening), but it's something you have to do. Also, remember that having sex involves putting a man's penis in your vagina. That kind of makes your own fingers seem like not so big of a deal.

If you do decide to go with the diaphragm, you will have to go to a health care provider/gynecologist to get fit for it, since there's several sizes. Ideally, at this visit, your practitioner will also instruct you on how to easily insert/remove the diaphragm, and help you out if you have questions there. It's a very good idea to practice inserting and removing the diaphragm several times before you do decide to have sex to make sure you won't have any problems with it. It's also a good idea to put it in and leave it in for a while too, so you know what it feels like being in. Another option you have is the cervical cap, which is similar in principal to the diaphragm in that it's a piece of rubber that blocks sperm from accessing your cervix. To use this option you also have to get fit by a health professional. If you would like to read about diaphragms, cervical caps, or other barrier methods, click here.

The diaphragm works by blocking the entrance to the cervix. This thus prevents sperm from being able to access your uterus, and thus they are unable to fertilize your egg and make you pregnant. It is also common practice for women to put spermicide on the inside of the diaphragm, so just in case any sperm get around the diaphragm, they are further blocked by the spermicide. The reason the diaphragm has to stay in place for 6-8 hours after sex is to make sure that the sperm left in your vagina can die before you take the diaphragm away. If you took it out early, the sperm left behind in your vagina could easily access your uterus and make you pregnant. The diaphragm can very easily be used in conjunction with condoms for further protection against pregnancy and STIs.

Another option would be the contraceptive sponge. In the United States we only have the Today Sponge, which was just re-released on the market and is just starting to make its way to shelves. In Canada, you have had the sponge on the market for a while longer, and there are a few other brands available. The sponges are round, and usually made of polyurethane or a similar material. They have spermicides inside of them. They are placed over your cervix, and then they absorb sperm during sex. Click here to read how to use the Today Sponge (other sponges are used the same way). These are commonly used in conjunction with condoms to increase the protection against pregnancy. For this method you don't have to get a prescription, they are sold next to the condoms in drugstores.

Choosing a birth control method always involves a lot of research, and unfortunately, it also often involves playing the guinea pig until you find something that you like. I recommend finding a health professional/gynecologist that you feel comfortable with and go over all your ideas for birth control methods, and see if they have any input. You may also try asking some friends, or even relatives what methods they use or have used and hear their thoughts.
          -Emma

 

"I am a 13 year old who has had sex, but I'm not yet having periods. Is it okay for girls who haven't had periods yet to be on the pill?"
          -Janet

"How old do you have to be to walk into a clinic and get on birth control without having a parent knowing about it?"

Each state (and country) has their own laws regarding teenage sexuality. You should call local clinic's or doctor's offices to ask them about your own state's laws and their own policies. You can also visit the Alan Guttmacher Institute's (a great resource for research on sexuality and reproduction) info on state policies regarding minor's access to birth control. This is really basic info, so you should still call local offices to find out details.

As well as state laws, another concern for privacy is cost. Many young women have problems gathering the money to cover the office visit as well as the birth control itself, especially when they do not involve their parents. My advice would be to call around for the best prices for the office visit. You may want to call non-profit women's clinic's (like the Emma Goldman Clinic if you're around Iowa City) over private doctor's offices, because at the clinics the prices will most likely be lower. When you do get in for the exam, tell them that you are looking for inexpensive birth control, and then they will keep that in consideration while writing your prescription. Then make sure you call around to a lot of pharmacies for prices before getting it filled (prices can vary widely).

It is important that you do not let your fears get in the way of you getting the health care you need. Even if you have to put off birth control for a while, it is still important that you get a gynecological examination once a year if you are sexually active. They can also answer any questions about sexuality that you may have. At these exams they will make sure that you are healthy by screening for cervical cancer (a common cancer for sexually active young women), and they can check you for sexually transmitted infections (STIs). STIs are very common among young people. Even if you start using birth control you still need to use condoms EVERY TIME that you have sex, because hormonal birth control (pill, patch, ring, Depo) provides no protection against STIs.

As for Janet's question, it is possible to start birth control before you start having periods. It is possible to become pregnant even if you have never had a period before. If you don't go on some kind of birth control, or if it takes a while to start it, you need to be very careful with condoms. You also need to watch your body very carefully for pregnancy symptoms. Since you aren't having periods, it could be possible for you to get to be very far along before you realize that you are pregnant. It is also very important for you to get checked for STIs while you are getting your exam. Not having periods does not make you immune for STIs.
          -Emma

 

"If you had intercourse before you started the birth control pill, and could possibly be pregnant but started the pill about 3 weeks later anyway, what does the pill do to the 'baby'?"

"If I become pregnant while on birth control pills, will it cause me to abort if I did not know I was pregnant and continued taking the pills?"

Taking birth control pills does not cause an established pregnancy (meaning a positive pregnancy test and she is FOR SURE pregnant) to end. However, ideally you should quit taking your pills as soon as you find out that you are pregnant, because there is the possibility that continuing to take birth control pills (and any medication really) during pregnancy could cause birth defects.

You shouldn't start taking birth control unless you are sure that you are not pregnant. This is one of the many reasons that women are told to start the pill with their period, because then at least they have a good idea that they are not pregnant.

From reading the first question, it looks like it's been more than 3 weeks since this intercourse, and therefore, any pregnancy test will work right now. Take the test, and if it's positive, quit taking your birth control pills. Then you should call your health care provider to start finding out about your pregnancy options.

I can't tell you exactly what the pill will do to your body, or a developing pregnancy. Pill manufacturers do tell people not to take them if they may be pregnant, because there is a risk for birth defects. You should talk to the person who prescribed you your pills to find out more specific information.

Whenever you find out that you are pregnant, you should see your health care provider right away. If you are planning on continuing the pregnancy, they can get you started on pre-natal care. They can also answer your questions more specifically about what effects birth control pills could potentially cause. If you do not want to continue the pregnancy, or are not sure, you should start talking to people right away. You need to make a decision regarding the pregnancy sooner, rather than later, because the earlier you decide the more options you have. Try visiting www.pregnancyoptions.info. This website has very good, non-judgmental information that has been very helpful to women facing an unplanned pregnancy.
          -Emma

 

"I am physically active, and for the past couple of years I've only had approximately 2 periods per year. I haven't had a period yet this year. I saw a doctor a couple of months ago, and she prescribed Ortho Tri Cyclen for me if I wanted to regulate my periods. I never picked up the prescription, because I would prefer to not be on any sort of drugs. Yet, I am considering becoming sexually active. Does my lack of periods mean that I can't get pregnant as long as I continue to skip periods? Or that my chance of getting pregnant is less than a normal woman? Will I be able to get pregnant later on in life when I want to be? Should I try the birth control, or should I not be too concerned about my missed periods?"

There's no health problems from not having a period every month (otherwise birth control methods like Seasonale and Depo Provera, where women have very few, if any, periods would be off the market).

One of the big reasons that women want to regulate their periods, is that it is hard to tell when you will ovulate, and thus get pregnant, if you don't have regular, monthly periods. Yes, you can get pregnant if you only have 2 periods a year. But the problem, is that you could be up to 6 months or more along before you "miss a period". Obviously, that would be very bad. Some women who only have a few periods a year only ovulate a few times a year, but others ovulate more often than that. I can't tell which one you are, so you need to be careful with your birth control. You will most likely not have problems becoming pregnant in the future, except that, again, you may not be able to tell when you are ovulating (an easy solution, is when you want to become pregnant just have sex all the time, rather than just when you may be ovulating).

If you are having sex at all you need to be using some kind of birth control (unless you want to get pregnant). If you are not comfortable taking hormonal birth control, you should go back to your doctor/physician and talk about your other options. You can do stick to using condoms every time. Sometime here in 2005 the birth control sponge will be available, and that is commonly used in conjunction with condoms to further decrease the risk of becoming pregnant. Click here if you want to read an article from our most recent newsletter about the sponge and its return to American shelves. You can also talk to your physician about other barrier methods such as diaphragms and cervical caps. To use those, your physician has to fit you for them, since they come in many different sizes, but they can be a good option for people who do not want to take hormones.

Whether or not you want to use hormonal birth control is entirely up to you. If you feel more comfortable using barrier methods, then do that. Just make sure that you use some kind of birth control method, unless you want to become pregnant, because the fact that you don't have as many periods as other women does not protect you from pregnancy.
          -Emma

 

"Do I have to get a physical exam before I get any form of birth control?

If you would like to go on hormonal birth control (pill, patch, ring, Depo, and the hormonal IUD), you do have to have an annual exam. Along with a pap smear, a pelvic exam, and often a breast exam and urinalysis, this is most women's physical for the year so they often will check blood pressure and your breathing and heart rate.

If you choose to have the copper IUD, it is generally recommended that you go in for an annual exam, because besides checking in on the other factors, they want to make sure the IUD is still placed correctly.

If you want to get a diaphragm or cervical cap, you have to go to a physician to get fitted for those. They come in varying sizes, and for maximum effectiveness, you need one that fits you properly. It is generally recommended that you get annual exams with those methods as well, and bringing it in with you, so they can make sure it still fits properly.

If you choose to use over-the-counter contraceptives such as condoms, spermicides, or the sponge, you technically don't have to get an annual exam, since you don't need a prescription for those birth control methods. However, it is a good idea to get annual exams every year, because the pap smear can be a life saving cancer screening. It's also good to check in with a physician on a regular basis, just to make sure you're doing ok.

At the Emma Goldman Clinic, our fees are on a sliding scale for all of our services. We also have some special rates for teens and full-time students. We accept insurance, and we are a preferred provider with Blue Cross/Wellmark. If you would like to make an appointment with us, or have any questions about our fees or services call us at 319-337-2111 or toll-free at 1800-848-7684.
          -Emma

 

"I would like to know if medicine like Prednisone can influence the effect of hormonal contraceptives, and if I'm in danger of becoming pregnant during this. Thank you!"
          -Maria,
Prague

We looked up prednisone, and it doesn't affect hormonal birth control. However, and a very big however, being on hormonal contraceptives can increase the effectiveness of prednisone. You need to talk to you physician and your pharmacist and tell them you are on hormonal birth control. They may want to lessen your dose of the prednisone, to decrease adverse effects and potential hazards. Anytime you are prescribed any medication, you need to tell both your doctor and your pharmacist what other medications you are on, including birth control. There are a lot of medications that prevent birth control from working, causing many women to become pregnant, and in this case there are medications that can interact in potentially dangerous ways. If you have already gotten this prescription, you need to call your pharmacist and doctor right away to make sure you should still take it.
          -Emma

 

"I am on the [birth control] pill, and have been for 4 years. Last week I was put on antibiotics (amoxicillin). I had unprotected sex, and I was wondering what my chances are for being pregnant. I am not supposed to get my period for another week. Is there any way I can find out?"
          -
Michelle, MA

Antibiotics are known to decrease the effectiveness of birth control pills and almost all hormonal birth contol. We tell our clients that when they are on antibiotics (or other medications that reduce the effectiveness of birth control) that they need to use condoms for the whole time they are taking the medication, and for a full week after they stop. This is because being on these other medications can cause you to ovulate, and thus become pregnant. It's important to use condoms for the week afterwards to give any egg released enough time to leave your body without meeting any sperm.

It's hard to tell from your question exactly when things happened. If this unprotected sex happened within the last 5 days, you can use emergency contraception (EC) to prevent pregnancy. Visit www.not-2-late.com to find out where you can find EC in your area.

If it's been more than 5 days, unfortunately all that's left to do is take a pregnancy test. The strongest tests out on the market will need it to have been at least 7-10 days since the unprotected sex to tell if you are pregnant. Read the package before buying the test. Get one that is labeled as being able to give results sooner (before your period). Take the test using urine from the first time you pee in the morning. This sample is the most concentrated, and will give you the most accurate possible result. If the first test is negative, take another one each week until you have a positive result or until you get a period that is normal in length and flow compared to your other periods.
          -Emma

 

"I am 22 years old, and I have been put on 5-8 different birth controls because of breakthrough bleeding. I switched doctors, and this doctor found that I had irregular cells. We took care of that and the doctor said that should take care of the breakthrough bleeding. Needless to say, it did for about 3 weeks, then all the breakthrough bleeding started up again. So, is there anything that you can tell me about this? I also have a little girl who is 2 years old now. None of these problems started taking place until after I gave birth.
          -Jacque, West
Jefferson, Ohio

Unfortunately, some women get stuck playing the guinea pig, trying all these different kinds of pills/kinds of birth control until they find something that works. Also, unfortunately, some women will never find a hormonal birth control method that works for them, and they have to use non-hormonal methods. I would recommend that you go back to your physician. Just because the first doctor was making you switch pills all the time, that doesn't mean they're bad or anything (unless there was something else going on). You're just unlucky that the first ones you tried didn't work. I don't know what kinds you have tried so far, you may want to try a progestin-only birth control, like Depo Provera, the Mirena IUD, or the minipill. Sorry I can't give you more definitive news.
          -Emma

 

"Does the birth control make you get your period even if you are pregnant?"
          -Nikki, New Jersey

An important fact to know about periods and pregnancy is that it isn't necessarily a lack of pregnancy that causes women to bleed monthly, it's a drop in hormones. Whether or not one is on hormonal birth control (pill, patch, ring, Depo) it is possible to have bleeding during pregnancy that occurs about the same time a period would normally happen. This is especially common early in the pregnancy, but it can go further. Usually this bleeding is lighter and shorter than normal periods, but sometimes it can be so similar to normal periods that it is hard to tell the difference. This is why any periods that are lighter/shorter than normal, or that come at odd times should be a reason to take a pregnancy test.
          -Emma
 

“I had my IUD (Mirena) removed and started taking Necon birth control pills the same day.  Do I need to use a backup method and if so for how long?  I do not know when my last period was, because I have been having bleeding for 3 months since my baby was born.”
           -Sarah, Amsterdam, NY

When starting a hormonal method of birth control outside of your normal menstrual cycle I would recommend using backup for two weeks. Also, you should always use a backup method of birth control when having breakthrough bleeding and for seven days following.

           -Emma

 


Questions about Emergency Contraception

"What's the difference between the morning after pill and the abortion pill?"

The "morning after pill" is also known by the name Emergency Contraception (EC). EC is a series of pills a woman takes as soon as possible, but up to 5 days, after unprotected sex, and it is very effective at preventing her from becoming pregnant. It won't end an established pregnancy; it is not an abortion. Right now EC is only available by prescription. Click here to learn more about EC.

The abortion pill, also known as RU-486, medical abortion, non-surgical abortion, or by the brand name Mifeprex is a medication that women can take after they are pregnant to end the pregnancy. It can't be taken unless the woman has a positive pregnancy test and she is confirmed to be pregnant, and less than 9 weeks from her last period. Mifeprex has to be given by a doctor. Click here to learn more about Mifeprex and non-surgical abortions.
          -Emma

 

"Can you please explain to me why and how EC (emergency contraception) can work up to 5 days after sex, when the sperm has already entered the vagina?"

"Is EC just as effective if a woman is on birth control compared to someone who is not? What else does EC do other than prevent ovulation?"

One of the ways EC works, is if the woman hasn't ovulated yet that month, it puts off ovulation a few days, to let the sperm have a chance to die off before the egg is released. It also changes the cervical mucus in the vagina, making it harder for sperm to move. It also changes the uterine lining, making it thinner, so that if some sperm does make it to the egg, the fertilized egg is less likely to implant in the uterus. If the fertilized egg implants in the uterus, then the woman is pregnant, and EC will not do anything to the pregnancy.

This all works better if the EC is taken closer to the unprotected sex, but it is effective at preventing pregnancy up to 5 days afterwards. Progestin-only ECs, like Plan B, which is the most commonly used EC in the United States, are 89% effective at preventing pregnancy if taken within 72 hours of unprotected sex. This means that if 100 women take EC only 1 will become pregnant (pregnancy/contraception statistics are a little screwy like that). The effectiveness of EC drops 2-3% between 72 and 120 hours (5 days) after the unprotected sex. It doesn't make a difference if the woman is also on any other birth control, EC is just as effective.

Click here if you would like to read some more detailed information about EC. You can also ask your gynecologist or health care provider.
           -Emma

 

"What are some of the reasons why EC (emergency contraception) wouldn't work?"

EC, like any birth control method, has a failure rate. Just like how the pill sometimes fails, even when women take it perfectly, EC sometimes doesn't work, even if the woman took it just like she was supposed to. Plan B, the most common EC in the United States, is 89% effective at preventing pregnancy when taken up to 72 hours after unprotected sex (the effectiveness drops 2-3% between 3 and 5 days), which means that if 100 women took Plan B after unprotected sex, 1 would be come pregnant. If a woman does become pregnant after taking EC, it has not been shown to cause any harm to the pregnancy. If you would like to learn more about EC, click here.

To make sure that EC is as effective as possible, try to take it as soon as possible after unprotected sex. It is effective up to 5 days afterwards, but it is more effective if you take it sooner. It's a good idea to find out where you can get EC, and how to get it, before you need it. That way you won't be pushing that 5 day mark. If you're in the Iowa City area, you can call us here at the clinic to learn more about getting EC; our toll-free number is 1800-848-7684. You can also visit www.not-2-late.com to find out where you can get EC in other parts of the country.
          -Emma

 

"I was wondering if it is true that if you take 10 birth control pills the day or two days after having sex, can it prevent you from becoming pregnant (like the morning after pill)?"
          -Heather,
Phoenix, Arizona

You've got the basic idea down, let me just tell you how this works. First, not all birth control pills are approved for use as emergency contraceptive (EC, formerly known as the morning after pill). Click here to see the list of pills that have been approved for this use. This page is our page on EC, so you can also read all about how it works. For most of these you take 4 or 5 pills at a time, in two doses that are 12 hours apart. The reason you split up the pills into two doses, is it is common for these pills, since this makes a high dose of hormones, to make you a bit nauseous. Splitting up the dose helps reduce this feeling a lot.

If you don't have those brands of birth control pills on hand, you can use Plan B. Plan B is a medication that is specifically packaged to be used as EC. You can find this at many reproductive health clinics, or at many pharmacies. It's a good idea to check out which pharmacies in your area carry EC before you need it, so you don't have to run all over town in that event. You can also visit www.not-2-late.com. They have a directory of physicians all around the country that prescribe and dispense EC.

Also, while EC is most effective the soonest that you take it, it is still effective if you take it up to 5 days after sex, not just the "morning after" (hence the change in the name).
          -Emma

 

"What happens if you take the EC pill an hour BEFORE you have unprotected sex? Will it still be effective?"

"I took both Plan B (emergency contraception, EC) pills at once. 4 hours later I had sex with my boyfriend, but the condom broke. We are just wondering, could I be pregnant since I just took Plan B before this happened?"
          -Angela, BC

There haven't been studies about the effectiveness of taking emergency contraception (EC) before sex. These medications were intended to be taken in emergency situations, for instance, when the condom breaks, and not meant to be your regular birth control method. If you regularly have unprotected sex, or if you are planning on having unprotected sex, you should just get on a regular birth control method, for instance the pill, rather than relying on EC. EC isn't as effective as hormonal birth control taken regularly. EC is 89% effective, vs. the pill is 99.7% effective if taken correctly. 89% doesn't sound all that great, but in a case of the condom breaking, it is way more effective than doing nothing.

EC wasn't meant to be used regularly. It's supposed to be a once in a while thing. Because of that, it hasn't been studied to see if it works well if you take it before sex, or if you take it several times within each month. EC is only approved for protecting against pregnancy for 1 sex act. So, with the second question, technically, you should take a second dose of EC. You should have a talk with your health care provider or the place you get your EC to see if they have their own opinion on this.

Remember that hormonal birth control, including EC, provides no protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and they don't make any kind of "morning after pill" for STIs. You should use condoms each time you have sex to protect yourself against STIs.

If you're having problems with condoms like this regularly, you should either go over condom use to make sure you're using them correctly, or you should consider another birth control method. Condoms are most likely to break when they are the wrong size for the guy, or if they're put on incorrectly. If you would like to see an illustration of how to put on a condom, you can click here. This goes to the Durex Condoms website, but if you prefer other brands of condoms, the other companies usually have this same information available on their websites. You and your boyfriend should go over this well before you have sex, so you aren't trying to figure it out in the heat of the moment. It's probably also a good idea to use more lubricant during sex. If you get too dry, then that can cause more friction, which can thus cause the condom to break.
          -Emma


 

"I had unprotected sex about 20 hours ago. I have birth control pills and heard that I could use them as emergency contraception, but I can't find the dosage for my specific type. How many pills should I take?"
          -Kym, NJ

"I had unprotected sex on Saturday night. The guy came inside of me, but he said he didn't get fully aroused, so it was just a little. I'm supposed to start my period tomorrow (8/17). I took EC (4 Lo/Ovral pills), so that hopefully I wouldn't get pregnant. What are my chances?"
          -Renae, Mesquite, TX

"I had unprotected sex. My friend gave me 5 Lo/Ovral pills, because that's all she had. She said that the rest of the pills are pink, and those ones are for your period time. If I took the pink pills too, could they be effective?
          -Amy

With that first question, I feel like I should comment about your boyfriend saying he wasn't fully aroused, and so it was "just a little". Remember, that "just a little" is enough to get pregnant (hence, withdrawal not working). Also, if his penis was erect enough to go inside of your vagina, that's aroused.

After that, Please start by clicking on this link. This is our info on Emergency Contraception (EC), and at the bottom of the page it says how to go about making EC out of normal birth control pills. EC is always 2 doses of hormones that you take twelve hours apart. If you are using Lo/Ovral you take 4 white pills at each of those doses (so you take a total of 8 pills). EC only has it's top effectiveness if you take both doses. You also have to take the correct color of pills that it says on the chart. Period week pills, do not have any hormones in them, so no, it will not be effective to take them. If you are still within 5 days of unprotected sex, you can do another run of EC to prevent pregnancy. If you live in the Iowa City area, you can come here to the Emma Goldman Clinic to pick up Plan B. Plan B is the brand name for pre-packaged EC, so there you only have to take 2 pills (12 hours apart). If you don't live around Iowa City, you can visit www.not-2-late.com to find places in your area where you can get EC.

Renae from the first question has the other option of waiting to see if she gets her period. Taking EC (even a half dose) generally messes with women's periods. Your period could come a little early or late, it could be heavy or light. But if you don't get a period at all within 3 weeks of taking EC, you should take a pregnancy test. It would also be a good idea if this period is super light.

The other thing you should do in the future is to make your boyfriend wear a condom no matter what. Boys who won't wear condoms aren't worth sleeping with. You deserve better than this level of stress.
          -Emma

 

"How much does EC cost?"

Prices from pharmacy to pharmacy, and clinic to clinic can vary widely. To find out how much EC costs, you should call the pharmacy or clinic that you will go to.

Here at the Emma Goldman Clinic we have competitive prices and a sliding scale for all of our fees. Please call the clinic with all questions about our prices. Our number is 319-337-2111 or toll-free at 1800-848-7684.
          -Emma

 

"How do I get EC within 5 days if I live in the US?"
          -Hometown: mo

Currently, emergency contraception (EC) is a prescription medication in the United States, so you have to get a prescription to get it. Emergency contraception is very good at preventing  pregnancy if you take it up to 5 days after unprotected sex, but it's more effective the sooner you take it. You may try calling your gynecologist, but sometimes, even your general doctor will help you get it. Many doctor's won't require a visit for this if you've been seen by them before; they can just call the prescription into a pharmacy. We provide EC to women here in our clinic, but you probably don't want to drive all the way here from Missouri. (Anyone in the Iowa City area, or who really likes driving, can call us toll-free at 1800-848-7684 to find out how you can get EC from us.) Another option is to visit www.not-2-late.com. There you can look up doctors and offices in your local area that provide EC.
          -Emma

 

"I took the emergency pills a week ago, and now I am bleeding. Why?"

Emergency Contraception (EC) is a pretty large dose of hormones, and taking them can cause you to have some bleeding or your next period to be a little funny. This is totally normal. Just watch when you get your next period to make sure that it's as long and heavy as all your other periods. If it's lighter/shorter than normal, or if you don't get it at all, you need to take a pregnancy test.
          -Emma

 

"Emma, can the morning after pill (emergency contraception) cause your period to be late?"

Emergency contraception (EC), also known as the "morning after pill", can commonly make the next period after taking it a bit funny, whether or not you are on any other kind of birth control. The next period could come early, or late, it could also be heavier or lighter. If you don't have any period at all within 3 weeks after taking EC, you should take a pregnancy test. For the most accurate test, take it with urine from the first time you pee in the morning. If you would like to learn more about EC, click here.
          -Emma

 

"I missed one pill, and had unprotected sex the next day. I took two pills to catch up, but should I still take EC?"

That would probably be a very good idea. We tell our clients that if they miss a pill, they need to use condoms for a full week after they are caught back up. Missing just that one pill can trigger ovulation, and you can become pregnant. You have up to 5 days after the unprotected sex to take EC (emergency contraception, which can prevent pregnancy after unprotected sex), but it's better to take it as soon as possible. If you are in the Iowa City area, you can come here to the Emma Goldman Clinic to get EC. If you live elsewhere, check out www.not-2-late.com, and they can refer you to local places to get EC.
          -Emma

 

"If you've taken the Plan B (Emergency Contraception) pills and find out that you were pregnant, what are the chances of the baby not having any birth defects? And if you're on anti-depressant medication, same question."
          -Ashley, Wilson, NC

 Accidental use of Emergency Contraception (EC or Plan B) has not been linked to increased risk of birth defects. Women on birth control who don't immediately realize they're pregnant can and have been able to carry healthy pregnancies to term. Studies have specifically confirmed that babies born to women who were initially on birth control pills during pregnancy do not have higher rates of birth defects. This is why several years ago, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration had warnings about the possibility of harm to the fetus removed from manufacturer labels on birth control pills. However, it is true that there haven't been specific studies on the effects from the higher dose of birth control hormones contained in EC.
  If a woman does choose to continue the pregnancy, it is important to immediately stop taking birth control and to speak to her doctor about prenatal care.
 As for anti-depressants - it depends on the class of anti-depressant. Some anti-depressants are in a class category that do not show harmful risk for birth defects, and others are not advised by doctors. This is a question you should ask the person who prescribed you the medication. Sometimes women can temporarily discontinue use of their medications for the term of a pregnancy- however, you may also want to consider that the benefits of continuing the medication for the your health may outweigh other risks.
         -Emma

 

 

Questions about Condoms

"Are "dollar store" condoms safe?"

On the whole, most condoms sold in the United States are safe. The ones specifically to watch out for are ones sold for "novelty purposes". These aren't necessarily tested for contraceptive or protective purposes. Beware of ones in vending machines, since those occasionally will be well past the expiration date by the time you buy one. Also, it's not a good idea to buy any that are stored in a place that has dramatically varying temperatures, for instance, gas station bathrooms that aren't insulated for weather.

Once you have your condoms at home, you need to care for them properly to ensure they keep their maximum effectiveness.

  • Keep them at a constant, room temperature. Don't store them in your wallet. The heat from your body can degrade the latex.
  • Never use a condom that is past the expiration date.
  • Never reuse a condom
  • Don't store the condom anywhere it can be damaged. For instance, don't let them float in your purse where your keys or other objects can damage them.
  • Open the package carefully. Don't open a condom package with your teeth.
  • Use only water-based lubricants. Oil-based lubricants, such as petroleum jelly, can degrade the latex.

When choosing condoms, make sure you are buying the right kind for you. Men rarely need the "maximum" or extra-large sized condoms. Buying condoms that are larger than your penis means they will fall off more often. Also, there is no reason to use condoms lubricated with spermicides. Having spermicide on the condom does not improve the effectiveness, and the chemical spermicides can be very irritating to the vagina or the rectum.

A good place to go for inexpensive and safe condoms (and other contraceptives) is your local women's or reproductive health clinic. Here at the Emma Goldman Clinic for instance, we sell condoms at 8 for $1.

If you want a good research for determining whether your chosen brand of condoms is safe, you should check out Consumer Reports. They are a non-profit organization that evaluates basically everything that you can buy in the United States, and in February of 2005, they tested 23 different kinds of latex condoms. Visit www.ConsumerReports.org, and put "condoms" into their search box.
          -Emma

 

"I am 17 and am about to be sexually active. After talking with my doctor, I have decided to use condoms, because hormones are not good with me and because of medical problems. My question is, with perfect use the condom is about 97-98% effective, which is great. But with perfect use, why would those 2-3% get pregnant? Is this possibly due to a condom breaking? What if a condom was used perfectly every single time without it ever breaking, and there was careful removal? What would still cause the pregnancy?"
          -
Amy, New York

Condoms are rated at 97-98% effective, because even when used perfectly, they sometimes do fail. This is just like any other birth control method. Sometimes women become pregnant even when they take the pill/patch/ring/Depo exactly like they were supposed to. The 2-3% failure rate on condoms are attributed to condoms breaking or falling off (which they occasionally do even when put on and used correctly), manufacturing defects or problems, or some problem with the condom after it left the factory that could be caused by things like temperature changes, for instance. Failures can be caused by a lot of things. Remember, that failures are not exclusive to condoms. No birth control method (except for complete abstinence) is 100% effective at preventing pregnancy.

The best thing that you can do is to make sure you are prepared for when the condom breaks or falls off. Make sure you know where you can get emergency contraception (EC). Click here if you would like to learn more about EC. EC prevents pregnancy even after the condom break, but it is most effective the sooner that you take it. At our clinic we allow women to buy extra EC that they can keep at home just in case. Maybe your doctor will let you do that too, or at least they may be willing to call you in a prescription or something. If your doctor won't prescribe EC for some reason, try visiting www.not-2-late.com, which will tell you about other places you can get EC in your area.
          -Emma

 

“Are condoms reliable when preventing pregnancy? I'm not on the pill and my lover and I have only being using condoms as a means of pregnancy prevention. One little problem is this month my period is late. Can condoms break or leak?”
          -Tina,
Cambridge, Ontario, Canada


If used perfectly, male, latex condoms are rated at 97% effective at preventing pregnancy. However, in typical use (non-perfect use such as: not using correctly or consistently) the effectiveness can drop down to about 90%. The birth control pill, for instance, has a perfect use effectiveness of 99.9% and a typical use effectiveness of about 95%. The only method of birth control that is 100% effective is complete abstinence. Everything else, even when used perfectly, occasionally fails, and women become pregnant. Even if you do decide to go on the hormonal birth control, it's a good idea to use condoms anyway, since hormones do not protect against STIs, and the condom will help cover you in case the pill fails.

Yes, it is possible for condoms to both leak and break. The most common cause of breakage/leakage is improper use. It is important to make sure that the guy is using a size of condom that is appropriate for him. A lot of guys like going into the store and buying the “maximum” size condoms, but very few need that extra room. If a smaller guy puts on a gigantic condom, it will leak and fall off. As for breakage, that is commonly caused by the condom not being put on correctly. It is very important to pinch off a bit at the end of the condom. This makes it so there’s no bubbles of air in the condom, which will cause it to break, and it also leaves some space at the end for the semen to go. No space at the end will cause the condom to break when he comes. If you would like to see an illustration of how to put on a condom, you can click here. This goes to the Durex Condoms website, but if you prefer other brands of condoms, the other companies usually have this same information available.

If your period is late, you should take a pregnancy test.
         
-Emma

 

"If a male condom slips off while in the vagina, does it stay there or will it fall out. Is it dangerous, or can it cause health problems?"

"My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time a couple of nights ago. We got kinda into it, but we stopped and the condom fell off inside of me. He didn't come yet. Could I still be at risk of being pregnant?"
          -August, Florida

Having a condom in the vagina doesn't cause any immediate problems unless it is left for a significant period of time. Sometimes the condom will come out on its own, but often it takes more for it to come out. The vagina is only a few inches deep, so it's not usually too hard to find things like that. The woman should just stick her finger in her vagina and try to pull it out. If it doesn't come out, or if she can't find it, she can go in to her gynecologist and they can remove it for her. She should definitely try to find it herself first to avoid the office visit fee. The other concerns about the condom falling off are pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

If the condom fell off during sex, even before he ejaculated, you can become pregnant. This is because even before the guy ejaculates (cums, comes) his body will often produce what is commonly called "pre-cum". This is a fluid that comes out of the penis before ejaculation that has sperm in it. Pre-cum doesn't have the same concentration of sperm that cum has, but women do often still become pregnant from it. This is why many women become pregnant from the condom breaking or falling off. If this has been within the last 5 days, you can still take emergency contraception (EC) to prevent pregnancy. If you would like to find out where you can get EC in your area, visit www.not-2-late.com.
          -Emma

 

"I have pimple-like pimples inside my vagina. Could it be caused from using a condom?"

Anytime you have sores in or around your vagina, or genital area, you should take them to a physician/gynecologist right away. If you let them heal over before going in, they will not be able to diagnose them.

People occasionally have allergic reactions to latex condoms, but "pimple-like pimples" could also very easily be symptoms of a sexually transmitted infection (STI).

We recently posted a question about what to do if you are allergic to latex, click here to read about how you can still have safer sex with a latex allergy.
          -Emma

 

"I'm allergic to latex.  What other options do I have condom-wise?"
          -Anonymous

There are condoms made of polyurethane that are considered effective for preventing pregnancy and STI transmission (including HIV). Some people even the thinner material of polyurethane to enhance pleasure. If someone is not allergic to latex, the FDA and other organizations do strongly recommend the use of latex condoms as they are slightly less likely than polyurethane condoms to break or come off during sex. However, consistent and proper use of either condom type provides effective contraception and STI prevention. Learning how to put on condoms properly, along with the use of lubricant, helps with keeping condom use effective.
A third type of condom is made of lambskin (lamb intestine, specifically) and can protect against pregnancy but is not recommended as STI protection (even though sperm cannot pass through the material, viruses are small enough to get through the pores of the lambskin).
The Emma Goldman Clinic has non-latex polyurethane condoms available (sold individually).

 

 

Questions about Birth Control Pills

"Ask Emma" has gotten MANY questions coming from women who have missed a pill, or 3, or the entire pack, or taken some late, or taken some early, etc., and wanted to know if they are or could become pregnant.

The answer is yes. Anytime you are late by more than 6 hours taking your pill, you can become pregnant. Also, he 6 hour window may not apply to all types of pills - some pills may have a shorter window to be late (ie low dose pills). We tell our clients that if they miss a pill or are late more than the allowed number of hours for their pills, they need to use a back-up method (like condoms) for one full week after they are all caught up. If you have unprotected sex within that week you are running a large risk of becoming pregnant.

If you have had sex after missing or being late for a pill, you can still use Emergency Contraception (EC) to prevent pregnancy. If you take EC up to 5 days after the unprotected sex it is very effective at preventing a pregnancy from occurring. If you would like to read more about EC, click here.

If you have further questions about how to take your birth control pills correctly, you should contact the health care provider that prescribed or gave you the pills.
          -Emma

 

"My girlfriend and I had sex, and I came inside of her. Later, we bought birth control pills, and she took 2. Then ever since, she's been taking them 1 a day with no skips. Could she still be pregnant even if she wasn't on the pill when I came inside of her?"

YES!

Birth control pills don't work until AFTER you take them. Depending on when in her menstrual cycle she started taking her pills, they wouldn't have become effective until 1-2 weeks after starting the pills.

If she did become pregnant from that sex act, the birth control pills also wouldn't do anything to disrupt or end that pregnancy.

If it's been at least 10 days since the unprotected sex, she can try taking a pregnancy test. Make sure she takes it using urine from the first time she pees in the morning. That urine sample will be very concentrated, and it will give her the most accurate results.
          -Emma

 

"I have been on the pill for over 3 months now, and had a question regarding time of pill taking. I noticed that you said we have a window of 6 hours to take the pill every day. I have been sexually active, and I have been taking my pills for the last couple months at different times in the day (2pm, 5pm, 7pm). Does that window of 6 hours work for just one pill, or all pills in general?"

"If someone was late taking a pill (more than 6 hours), how soon could they ovulate?"

It's very hard to predict exactly when someone will ovulate. We tell our clients, that if they are more than 6 hours late taking their pill, they should take it as soon as they remember, then use a back-up method of birth control, like condoms, for a full 7 days afterwards. This is because a woman could ovulate immediately after that 6 hours, but maybe not for a couple days. She could also not ovulate at all in this instance, but most women would much rather be safe than sorry.

The 6 hour window for pills really only applies to individual occurrences. You need to take the pill at the same time every day, and only use that 6 hour window occasionally, if ever. If you fluctuate in your pill times like that, between 2 and 7, your dose of hormones your body is getting won't be constant, and the pill might not work to its maximum effectiveness.

If you ever vary outside of the 6 hour window, remember to use a back-up method of birth control, like condoms, for 7 days after you are caught up on your pills. It's a good idea to always use a condom, even if you take your birth control pills perfectly, to provide protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

If you had unprotected sex after missing a pill, you still have 5 days to prevent pregnancy. To learn more about emergency contraception, click here.
          -Emma
 

“Hi, I missed a pill 2 weeks ago on a Saturday the 19th of may and restarted the whole pack, I'm 7 days late for my period, I’m bloated and have light cramps no other symptoms, but my pregnancy test reads negative. Could a missed pill mess up my cycle?”
             -Holly

Missed pills are the main cause of irregular cycles. We do not recommend that our clients stop in the middle of a cycle to start a new pack. If you miss a pill in the future, take it ASAP and then use a backup method (ie condoms) for 7 days afterward.  If you are concerned about being pregnant, a high-sensitivity pregnancy test will be positive 10 days after unprotected intercourse. If it’s negative, you can either wait until your period starts and use a backup method until then or begin a new pill pack and use a backup method for two weeks.
           -Emma

 

"I'm currently taking [a birth control pill] and I wanted to know, I don't think I'm pregnant, but if I did take a pregnancy test would I get a positive result because of the hormone from the pill?"

No, as long as birth control pills is the only medication you are taking, you shouldn't get a positive pregnancy test unless you are actually pregnant. Seasonale, and hormonal birth control generally, is made of artificial versions of the hormones progesterone and estrogen. Pregnancy tests test for the hormone called human chorionic gondotropin (hCG) which is only present during pregnancy and soon after the pregnancy ends. Therefore, the hormones from birth control don't affect pregnancy tests.
          -Emma

 

"Can I change the time I take my birth control pill? I used to take it at 8, but I need to start taking it later like 11pm as my schedule has changed.
          -Claire,
Dalas, TX

Just go ahead and change the time you take the pill. Since you are making a switch bigger than 6 hours (I'm on the assumption that you are switching from 8am), you should probably be on the safe side and use a back-up method, like condoms, for a full week after the switch. It's a possibility that you could have breakthrough bleeding if you make a big switch like this, so if you do, just make sure you use a back-up method for the entire time you bleed, and for a full week after you stop.
          -Emma

 

"How soon after discontinuing the use of combined-hormone birth control pills will I resume ovulation. (I had been taking the birth control pills for two months.)"
          -Beatrice,
Boise, Idaho

That's something that will vary woman to woman, no matter how long they were on the pill. The pill only stays in your body for 24 hours. Some women take a few months for their cycles to get back to normal post-hormones. Some women take a few months to get pregnant after stopping the pills, while there are lots of other women who become pregnant after just missing one pill.

The big thing is that post-pills women can ovulate at ANY time, so it's important to use a back-up method, like condoms, unless you want to become pregnant.
          -Emma

 

"My birth control pills are 3 different colors. What does that mean?"
          -Lisa,
Bartlett, IL

That means that you have a triphasic (3 phases) pill. Each color of pill has a slightly different level of the birth control hormones. Having these different levels over the course of the month is supposed to more closely mimic your body's natural hormones. Triphasic birth control pills are just as effective as pills that give you a constant level of hormones throughout the cycle (monophasic pills).
          -Emma